Not long ago, my friend Pablo asked me if I like to spend a lot of time alone. I remember being a bit surprised by the question. I suppose because I never consider that people are considering me.
I do spend a lot of time alone.
I answered yes. That I did.
I have an answer for why. I’m an outgoing introvert. I’m not shy. I can talk to anyone, really. It’s just that I take on the energy of people around me. I tend to need to “recharge” after being around people all day. When I’m lonely, I don’t stay there.
It seems like a dichotomy to perform or want to perform in front of others, yet needing to be away from people.
I think I do feel now and then I spend too much time alone. Then I make plans to be with my friends. I’m usually better for it.
Namaste, my friends.